Harp and Ellie

Look at these two girls! We are no longer allowed to mention Ellie's name until right before we see her. If Harper even thinks there is the smallest possibility of seeing Ellie, she gets herself so worked up! Then if it doesn't happen-WATCH OUT EVERYONE! The other evening after dinner in her diaper only, she walked to the front door, put on her "jack" (jacket) and said "Harper go, Harper see Ellie". Then she proceeded to have a complete meltdown at the front door when she realized is WAS NOT going to happen! Anyway, these two girls are attached for life! Good thing I love Ellie's mommy!!

Barbie

Troy and I had to clean up on Saturday for a party we had on Sunday. Unfortunately this means Harper has to play inside and she gets cabin fever! I decided to show her some of mommy's old Barbie's just to see what she thought. Well, she thought she'd died and gone to heaven for sure! She was immediately into them and has been obsessed with their well-being ever since. She puts the brown headed Barbie (which she named "Mommy baby" by the way!)under a blanket and night-night every day for nap and at night for bedtime. She even reads them books and makes them hug- it is too cute! Our little lady has quite the imagination!

Baby Johnny

Harper is getting ready for her baby brother or sister and has really taken to her big sister duties. Lila used to be her favorite doll but now it is Baby Johnny for sure! Named after her Uncle Johnny (named by harper by the way), Baby Johnny gets royal treatment. Harper changes his diaper, puts desitin on him (or all over him, but whatever), feeds him pizza and cheerios, and Harper "rocky baby johnny" all the time! She sings him Rock-A-bye-Baby and makes him fall- just like the song!! It is so sweet to see! She is going to be such an amazing big sister. We just have to work on throwing down baby Johnny when we are finished playing with him. That may not work with the little one on the way huh?

CHEESE!!!!!!!

Harper has come to love having her picture taken and then looking at what it looks like. She will say cheese over and over again for as long as we ask- which is about the only request she'll follow! Then of course the pictures are followed by the "I see, Harper see". So we let her hold the camera to see her beautiful picture all the while holding our breath and praying she doesn't decide to chunk the camera across the room! Maybe she needs a camera of her own!! But anyway, who can resist photographing those big smiley chops!

Harper Jumping

I Jump Fast Mommy and Daddy!

We have been researching so hard to figure out what to get Harp for Christmas this year and came across a toddler trampoline. We thought maybe she would be too small for it, but the last two nights all she wants to do is jump on her bed while holding onto the railing! Last night she ran into her bedroom while we were in ours and started screaming at the top of her lungs- I JUMP FAST MOMMY AND DADDY!!!!- We could hear her bed creaking from across the hall and her little feet bouncing up and down SO FAST!! What was so funny is then she would say every now and then- UH OH I FALL- and then a fast follow-up- I JUMP FAST MOMMY AND DADDY!!!. Needless to say I ordered the trampoline for her and will probably never get her off of it!!

I love my daddy!

I just wanted to post a cute of picture of Harper and her daddy playing at the playground in Tennyson. Harper just loves her daddy and no one can get her laughing like he can!!Even in the middle of the night last night when she was screaming for mommy, as soon as I got there she had to know "where daddy?". He is the best daddy ever and Harper is so lucky to have him!

Harper Speaks Spanish!

We were having a nice little family day at the park in Park West one beautiful Sunday afternoon. Troy was trying to figure out the camera, I was trying to make sure Harper didn't fly through the very dangerous climbing ladder while Harper hung on by one hand with ease- you know the usual!! All of a sudden, Harper says to us- UNO, DOS, QUATTRO!!! ( no idea if that was spelled right, I took French). Troy and I were like- wha? huh?did that just happen?! Yes I know she forgot tres but who really cares right?

She continues to do this over and over again and thinks it is hilarious that we think it is so amazing! I tell you- god bless the three D's- Dora, Diego and Daycare!!

Playdates-whoo hoo!

We have finally gotten into the swing of having play dates with Ellie and Morgan on a somewhat regular basis. They have been having a great time playing together and learning to "share" (yeah right!). We have been to the park, to the aquarium, chic-fil-a, etc. and all with no major meltdowns which I consider success! Harper gets so excited to play with her friends but we have to be very careful when we tell her she'll be seeing Ellie or Morgan because if it falls through- well that's just the end of the world for her! It is awesome to see she actually likes to play with the girls I named her BFF's, even though mommy, Ms. Melissa and Ms. Lane deemed them BFF's whether they liked it or not! Watch out Charleston- here comes trouble in the way of three blond haired, blue eyed, crazy girlies!!

HALLOWEEN!!!

This year Harper got to wear her costume about six times! She went to her Emamma and Poppa's house for a Halloween party and to the Pumpkin Patch. Then she wore her costume to school on Halloween Day. We also went to Fish or Treat at the Aquarium with the McPherson's and the Funke's came over to trick or treat. They were all low key, sugar-filled events! Harper, Morgan and Ellie were so cute this year in their costumes! We have so much left over candy but it works well for bribery! Yes Harp- you can have an ootsie oll (tootsie roll) or sucker but you have to clean up, eat a green bean,or whatever....first. I think we are digging ourselves into a bribery hole! It was such a fun Halloween.

JUST SOME CUTE PICTURES TO ENJOY!

Loving Two

LOVING TWO
I walk along holding your 2-year-old hand, basking in the glow of our magical relationship.
Suddenly I feel a kick from within, as if to remind me that our time alone is limited.
And I wonder, how could I love another child as I love you?

Then she is born, and I watch you.I watch as the pain you feel at having to share me as you have never shared me before.
I hear you telling me in your own way, "Please love only me" and I hear myself telling you in mine "I can't".
Knowing in fact that I never can again.You cry, I cry with you.I almost see our baby as an intruder on the precious relationship we once shared.
A relationship we can never have again.

But then, barely noticing, I find myself attached to that new being, and feeling almost guilty.I'm afraid to let you see me enjoying her -- as though I am betraying you.
But then I notice your resentment change, first to curiosity, then to protectiveness, finally to genuine affection.

More days pass, and we are settling into a new routine.The memory of days with just the two of us is fading fast.
But something is replacing those wonderful times we shared, just us two.There are new times -- only now we are three.
I watch the love between you grow, the way you look at each other, touch each other.I watch how she adores you, as I have for so long.
I see how excited you are by each of her new accomplishments.

I begin to realize that I haven't taken something from you, I've given something to you.
I notice that I am no longer afraid to share my love openly with both of you.
I find that my love for each of you is as different as you are, but equally strong.And my question is finally answered to my amazement.

Yes, I can love another child as much as I love you, only differently.
And although I realize that you may have to share my time, I know you'll never share my love.
There's enough of that for both of you -- you each have your own supply.
I love you both and I thank you both for blessing my life.-Author Unknown

Our Life Before the New Baby

Well I lost my other blog so I am going to start fresh and be motivated to actually keep this thing updated! Of course I have all the excuses- lost our camera, when we found the camera my lively two year old broke it, no new pictures, busy at work, blah blah. NO MORE EXCUSES! So for a quick update, my precious daughter is running out of time with just her and her mommy and daddy so we are trying hard to cram memories and special time! I think mommy is having a much harder time than Harper is though! It is hard to leave her to even go outside and leaving her at daycare is tortuous- and it doesn't help she has lately decided mommy is "the one"!! She screams when I leave her to go to the bathroom, only wants mommy to put her to sleep, sit with her, read her books, play with her, etc. Little Harper do you know something is going to change little girl? I think you may! So anyway, life is changing slowly for us over the next few months so I'll post often so we never let her forget- or mommy forget- how special our time is together. SIDE NOTE: PRETTY BAD BUT I AM CRYING AS I WRITE THIS-pregnancy hormones are kicking in!!

I LOVE YOU MY PRECIOUS BABY GIRL!!